Setting things straight

Firstly, I'd like to thank many of you for your support, however, to Anon 2 who wrote a comment on the previous post, it seems like you 'think' you know a lot about what has happened here, so since you're such a guru on the reasons why my marriage has fallen apart, please do me the favour of sharing exactly where I fucked up?

Was I a bad wife, did I sleep around, did I not do my bit to run the home, the children and contribute both financially and emotionally? Did I treat STBEH like shit? Did I not support him through ALL of the tough times instead of bitching about not being able to go on holiday again, bitching because of the nasty phone calls from creditors and lie awake with him at night, worrying about how we're going to survive? All the while not being appreciated for what I do, who I am and generally being ignored as a wife.

Am I to blame for wanting a life in which I want happiness, peace, stability and love? I DON'T THINK SO!!

STBEH could've posted his side on here at any point. I have never deleted any negative comments. The reality is that nothing of what I've said on here is a lie. It's ALL the truth.

Nobody's perfect and never have I professed to be either, but I am not the reason why this marriage has failed. I tried for a very long time to make it work.

I'm guessing that you're a family member or close friend of STBEH and therefore will accept that you're only trying to stand up for him, however I implore you to look at the facts. You might well be angry at me for writing this blog, but as I've said time and time again, this is my emotional venting ground. If STBEH wants to slag me off, then let him do it. I know he does it anyway, however not as publicly.

So, in conclusion Anon, if you still feel like you're such an expert on the matters of my marriage, please do share why you feel that you're such an authority.

Madge